MYTH: The person that ended the relationship isn't in pain
Ending a relationship is hard on both sides!
Just because you were the one that ended the relationship doesn't mean you aren't allowed to struggle with the breakup.
You may be grieving what you thought the relationship would be or simply be missing the person who was your main companion for a period of time (even if you had to come to the hard realization that it's not meant to be forever).
It's a myth that the breaker-upper isn't in pain or that they don't deserve support.
I help people in this position frequently, even it it's to focus on how to find a more compatible relationship in the future.
You deserve support too!
Ready to invest in your healing?